December, 1963 (Oh What a Night) you know Big Girls Don’t Cry – Who Loves You? Happy, Happy Birthday Baby!

Hello Monday! Always arrives sooner than we’d like, but Monday means music, so it’s always something to look forward to – let’s get to it!

For the month of June, our Spotlight Dancer is our friend and the fearless leader of Monday’s Music Moves Me (her brain child), Marie from XmasDolly! The theme selected for this week is “Songs to celebrate our hostess’ birthday yesterday” (hint: her favorite song ever is Frankie Valli’s “Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You”). Let’s get this birthday party started!

Let’s start with a song originally performed by The Four Seasons, written by original Four Seasons keyboard player Bob Gaudio and his wife Judy Parker, produced by Gaudio, and included on the group’s 1975 album.

The song features drummer Gerry Polci on lead vocals, with Frankie Valli, the group’s usual lead vocalist, singing the bridge sections and backing vocals, and bass player Don Ciccone – former lead singer of The Critters – singing the falsetto part.

Fun fact: According to Bob, the song’s lyrics were originally set in 1933 with the title “December 5th, 1933,” and celebrated the repeal of Prohibition, but the lyrics were changed at the urgings of Frankie Valli and lyricist Parker to reposition the song as a nostalgic remembrance of a young man’s first affair with a woman, and, more specifically, Gaudio’s courtship with his wife, Judy Parker.

Give a listen to with “December, 1963 (Oh, What a Night)”:

Next up is a song that was inspired by a line in the 1955 western Tennessee’s Partner, starring John Payne, Rhonda Fleming and Ronald Reagan. When Payne’s character slaps the blonde bombshell played by Fleming, he asks her what she thinks about being slapped. She gets up, composes herself, and replies, “Big girls don’t cry.”

The producer and co-writer of the group, who was half-asleep at the time, jotted down the line, fell asleep, and wrote the song the next day.

This song plays in the opening scene of the 1987 movie Dirty Dancing (which is set in 1963), and also appears in the films The Main Event (1979) and Mermaids (1990).

With this song, the group became the first rock-era act to hit the top spot on the Hot 100 with their first two chart entries.

Here again are Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons with “Big Girls Don’t Cry”:

Next up, in this song the frontman is addressing a girl who is clearly in a funk. He’s asking her to think about who really loves her and who is going to get her through these tough times, hoping she’ll finally realize it’s him.

The song was written by original Four Seasons member Bob Gaudio and a songwriter named Judy Parker, who later became his wife. Like many of the songs he wrote for the group, the upbeat melody contrasts with a somber, lovelorn lyric. However, there is a bright spot. He was quoted as saying:

“‘Who Loves You’ is a dark lyric with a positive outcome: There’s someone here for you, I’ll take care of you. “

“Who Loves Ya, Baby” was the catchphrase of the actor Telly Savalas, who starred in the popular detective show Kojak from 1973-1978. Savalas also dabbled in music and released a single in 1975 called “Who Loves Ya Baby.” Written by the Broadway composer Marvin Laird, the song finds Savalas imparting a sentiment similar to the Four Seasons song, as he sings:

When you’re needing it bad ’cause rough times you’ve had / I’m gonna look at you and say, Who loves ya baby?

So was the Four Seasons song inspired by Savalas and his famous phrase? The writer said:

“Everything that goes in my brain, in my ear, gets processed. Did I hear that phrase? Sure. There’s all kinds of inspiration. Did I specifically sit down and say, I’m going to write a song, ‘Who Loves You,’ because of Telly Savalas? No.

I think John Lennon once said good songwriters don’t borrow, they steal. And if he didn’t say it, I said it. I’ll take it.”

Here again is Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons with “Who Loves You”:

Last, but certainly not least, I couldn’t find any information about this song to impart – aside from that it’s apparently a cover of The Tune Weavers song from 1957. But it’s the perfect song to wrap up the music this week, to wish Marie a very very !

Here’s Frankie Valli and The Four Seasons with “Happy, Happy Birthday Baby”:

Happy Birthday, Marie!

That’s a wrap for this week – see you on the dance floor! Please continue to stay safe and healthy!

Now on to the particulars of Monday’s Music Move’s Me:   Photobucket

I have the supreme honor and privilege of being a co-host with the inimitable Xmas Dolly and our musical cohort, the awesome Cathy from Curious as a CAThy, Callie of JAmerican Spice, and Alana of Ramblin’ with AM!

Want to join in the fun? It’s easy – just find a tune that rocks your boat, post it and link up – don’t forget to grab Xmas Dolly…er, um, I mean her button…over at her place here. Check out Xmas Dolly’s sidebar for the random themes we sport each week – and you can always ask for a specific theme of music you like, too. Check out the other music lovahs and let’s jam!

INTRODUCING OUR “SPOTLIGHT DANCER”:

Marie from XmasDolly



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7 thoughts on “December, 1963 (Oh What a Night) you know Big Girls Don’t Cry – Who Loves You? Happy, Happy Birthday Baby!

  1. Stacy,

    “December 1963” is a great Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons song pick! You went with some of their best songs. What an excellent dance/birthday party! Marie is going to do a lot of chair boogieing for sure. 🙂 Have a funtastic week, dearie!

  2. Oh yeah, thank you so much for all. I know I’m livin’ in the past, but it makes me think of my youth all at the same time. You guys are the best and thanks sooooooooooooo very much! Hope all is well with you & yours girlfriend. Be safe, and be well. Thanks again.

  3. I know Marie is going to be dancing something fierce with all her birthday tribute songs. This one made a lot of lists, and for good reason. I’m so happy you picked “Who Loves You”. I had forgotten about this song – it’s been so long and I even owned the 45! (yes, dating myself). I never knew the backstory of “Big Girls Don’t Cry”. I’ll further date myself by saying I remember when it hit the charts.

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