The Care and Handling of Roses with Thorns by Margaret Dilloway (Review)

When asked to review The Care and Handling of with Thorns, I knew I would most likely enjoy it, considering the author, Margaret Dilloway, happens to be the very same author who penned How to be an American Housewife.  It started out on the slow side for me with excessive details about the breeding of roses (though I was fascinated at points, because I tend to do the same detail care for my grape vines).

Some may think too much time is also spent on the details of Galilee’s (Gal) kidney disease, but this part also fascinated me because it was eerily similar to an old friend of mine who recently passed away from the same disease after her third kidney transplant.  If my late friend had been interested in breeding roses with dreams of creating a prize-winning rose, I would think this character was actually her.

Once I got through what I would describe as ‘technical writing’, I became completely immersed in the storyline.  Gal was very much like her roses – a little prickly at times, but beautiful and vulnerable just the same.  She is (appropriately) a biology teacher at a private who doesn’t put up with slackers. She’s a no-nonsense teacher, doesn’t allow extra-credit or the retaking of failed tests.  I had a teacher like that in high school – pass or fail.

Teaching is her job, but roses are her passion.  That’s like my hubby – teaching is his job, but music is his passion.  I love how so many of the characters in this book I could relate to characters – I mean people – in my life.

Because Gal spent a majority of her childhood in the hospital battling her kidney disease (and in adulthood on a strict schedule due to dialysis treatments every-other-day) she has little patience for her fly-by-night drug/alcohol dependent older sister, Becky.  Gal’s strictly scheduled life is turned upside down when her sister travels to Hong Kong for work, sending her 15-year old daughter Riley, to Gal’s school for the free tuition and to live with Gal during the school year.

Having this unexpected ‘visitor’ invade Gal’s normal routine starts rocky at first – picture a 36 year old fiercely independent set-in-her-ways aunt trying to navigate the stormy mode – and mood swings – of a 15 year old girl.  After not having seen Riley for years, it takes awhile for the two of them to connect – but in the process it also forces Gal to re-examine her relationship with her sister, Riley’s mother Becky. 

It also makes her take a long hard look at her reclusive life, not getting ‘attached’ to other people or making solid friendships, aside from her eccentric friend, Dara. Riley’s presence in Gal’s life allows her to shed the thorns and bloom like one of her beautiful roses.  By the same token, Gal’s presence in Riley’s life turns her from a sullen teenager to a caring and considerate one.  By the end of the book Gal has even taken down enough walls that she allows a romance to begin to bloom.

Margaret Dilloway brings her characters to life yet again – if you’re looking for a good book to read, look no further.  Feel free to stop by and check out the discussion that’s going on now at the Book : Why I Was Scared of Red Roses.  The book will be released on August 2nd.

What are you reading?




Note:  This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club on behalf of Margaret Dilloway and Putnam Books.  The opinions expressed are my own and not influenced by outside sources.  You can see my here.


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After 20+ years in the Corporate World and years of infertility, Princess Nagger made her miraculous appearance and I chose to become a SAHM and WAHM - I love every minute of it. We added Little Dude through adoption, adding a whole new dimension to our family. We have an eclectic mix of pets: dogs, cats, birds and fish. I love to cook and try new techniques to turn ordinary into extraordinary. Crafty by nature, I take on a lot of unique projects and enjoy seeing the end result. My favorite, of course, is making my own wine out of fruits and grapes. Experiments with water currently underway. I blog about the joys of parenting, family, friends, life, love and anything else that strikes my fancy. I do enjoy doing reviews and giveaways for products I use, believe in and can stand behind.
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4 thoughts on “The Care and Handling of Roses with Thorns by Margaret Dilloway (Review)

  1. To tell you the truth I’m not reading anything right now because I’ve been so busy with the house due to our family reunion coming up and it’s going to be here, but your book sounds really pretty interesting. I do have a book that’s waiting for me though. It’s called Never After by Rebecca Lickiss. I believe I won it from a friend’s give-away. I love fantasy books. Mythology is my favorite.

  2. It sounds like a very interesting book, my mother loves to grow roses she has all kinds of roses.
    It seems to me as nice impressive birthday present for her next birthday. Thank you for the article.