The one thing I don’t look forward to being a mom of a daughter is having The Talk. No, not that talk. I’m talking about the monthly cycle talk. That talk. Period. Though that ‘other’ talk isn’t far behind the period talk.
Where’s that pause button?
Growing up, my mom didn’t talk openly to us girls about that time of the month. In fact, my older sister freaked out when she started her period, ran from the bathroom screaming “I’m dying! I’m dying!” Bleeding from her unmentionables threw her into panic mode, naturally.
My mom took her into the bathroom and showed her where the feminine products were kept, not really explaining what changes my sister was experiencing and what was happening. I was glad I had an older sister who went through it first, so I wouldn’t go into panic mode when it happened to me.
I always wanted to break the cycle and make sure that I always keep an open line of communication with Princess Nagger so she doesn’t have to go through the changes that will be happening sooner than I wish they would. Where the heck is that pause button?
Now that Princess Nagger is 9, we’ve started talking about what will be happening as she grows into womanhood – especially since it’s not uncommon for girls to start their period when they’re 8. Is it just me, or are they maturing younger and younger? In fact, we’ve recently had to discuss possibly getting her a training bra – which means the other ‘womanly mode’ is not that far behind. Again I ask, where on god’s green earth is that pause button?
I’m happy to announce I’m honored to be a U by Kotex Ambassador. I’ve been an avid user of Kotex myself over the years, and this opportunity couldn’t have come at a better time, considering Princess Nagger’s journey into womanhood seems to be on the horizon (still looking for that pause button).
I remember wearing the regular pads my mom had on hand when I was a tween, and just knew everyone around me knew what was going on with me, because I felt like everyone could tell I was wearing something so bulky – you know, because I felt like I was walking funny. Because I probably was, being that I was self-conscious and all.
I wish they had these products when I was a tween:
What I love about the new tween products are that the pads are designed specifically for 8 to 12-year-olds and are 18 percent shorter and narrower than other Kotex pads. Since Princess Nagger is way more petite than I was at that age, she won’t have to worry about being self-conscious when her time comes.
They’re also sold in glittery boxes decorated with hearts, stars and swirls (which are also printed on the pads themselves) to make that time of the month slightly more fun. Though when the box’o'goodies arrived in the mail, Princess Nagger’s enthusiasm was hidden by a whole lot of eye-rolling. I bet when the time comes, she’ll be very happy she’ll have fun products to use vs. the boring old stuff I use. I’m just sayin’.
I am happy to be participating in this important campaign and while I’m not looking forward to Princess Nagger growing further and further away from being my baby girl, I am looking forward to working with the Kotex brand.
Whether or not you have had the talk, are contemplating the talk, or simply know that it is in your future (since we can’t seem to find that pause button), stay tuned for helpful information for your tweens and teens. This should get interesting. For more information, feel free to visit U by Kotex for Tweens and Teens.
If you have daughters, have you had The Talk yet? If your daughters are gown, how did your talk go?
I wrote this review while participating in a Brand Ambassador Campaign by Mom Central Consulting on behalf of U by Kotex Tween and received products to facilitate my post and a promotional item to thank me for taking the time to participate. All opinions are mine and not influenced by outside sources. See my Disclosure Policy here.